Sometimes you let people move on. It's like the old addage if you love someone let them go. People get lost in things and can't see what they are doing or where they are going. It's always interesting the same peope always have the same sort of thing to say about other people. They can see other people doing stupid things and moving away from what they are and should be. I think stupidity is a drug. It's easy to move blind through things. Once a person that is needy sticks their hooks in something they are there untill shaken loose by what they are attached to. Once you've said all you can to sway a course of someone you care about it's done. No more need for discussion. Just sit by and watch the life drain from them. Think to yourself you did your best. I wish it worked when you say that in your own head. I doesn't tho. You always wish you could have said something else, something... to make them see what they are doing, something... just something to wake them up.I know it's not possible to do that. Once a person is addicted to something, there are only 2 things that can happen; they fade away never to be seen again, or change their own life and course of their own accord. Doesn't hurt any less.

If you love someone, set them free. If they come back they're yours; if they don't they never were at all.

I've had a really shitty few weeks to say the least. I've had about one week where I've not been in hell now. Not quite anyway. My fiance lost our unborn child. I have 2 children outside of this realationship I am terrified of what is happening to them. I've known for a long time now only my friend can wake himself up. So that's life.
When he comes back the best he can expect is just like the last time. I'll go I told you so and hand him a beer.
Looking at what is going on there is like seeing a bug slowly going towards a buglight. I should say it's not my issue. Only way to keep my mouth shut is not to talk. So for now I shut my mouth till I can say I told you so.

Such is life. I always lose what or who I care about to things worthless.